The importance of been pregnant
I think to be a parent contributes at many responsibilities, After I get married, I was afraid that my husband wants to have kids, because before we get married we talk about having babies will be after I graduate from college. But, now sometimes he ask me, if we wanted to have a baby, but I am still telling him not now, but he told me that time is passing on, so sometimes we have to deal with this subject.
For me planning a baby is a really good decision, because that way you can offer them the best. Also, because having a baby is a big responsibility, there are many factors which contribute at this responsibility. Such as, education because is really important how to educated your kids. As having many members of my family with this responsibility it is difficult to me been a mother now, sometimes I think if I get pregnant now is going to be very stressful for me. But, as time is passing now my priority is my education. Now, my husband understands the importance of my education so he understands and supports me in the decision of not having a baby during this time. However, after I finished school I want to have a baby.
As I read some blog stories, everyone has different opinions because they are single mothers, or just single, etc.
Happy International Women's Day
To everyone
I think to be a parent contributes at many responsibilities, After I get married, I was afraid that my husband wants to have kids, because before we get married we talk about having babies will be after I graduate from college. But, now sometimes he ask me, if we wanted to have a baby, but I am still telling him not now, but he told me that time is passing on, so sometimes we have to deal with this subject.
For me planning a baby is a really good decision, because that way you can offer them the best. Also, because having a baby is a big responsibility, there are many factors which contribute at this responsibility. Such as, education because is really important how to educated your kids. As having many members of my family with this responsibility it is difficult to me been a mother now, sometimes I think if I get pregnant now is going to be very stressful for me. But, as time is passing now my priority is my education. Now, my husband understands the importance of my education so he understands and supports me in the decision of not having a baby during this time. However, after I finished school I want to have a baby.
As I read some blog stories, everyone has different opinions because they are single mothers, or just single, etc.
Happy International Women's Day
To everyone
I agree with you 100%. It is hard in our culture to agree with the husbands about having children. I am not so sure why the want children they are a big responsibilty and men in our culture do not really interact when are small. I am proud of you for wanting an education and waiting on having children.
ReplyDeleteMelissa Strong
I agree with you as well. It takes a lot to have a child and it is very hard to concentrate on school and work when you also have a child. I think that it is great that you want to wait until after school! That is a very responsible and smart decision.
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